Welcome everyone! This is my new blog post and it is about my new classmate who’s modest or too shy because of lack of self-confidence.
First of all he is a guy, yeah… A guy that doesn’t have a self-confidence and really does need motivation, and I hope that he reads it.
He is really making me sad, because he always felt like he is different from everyone else, he looks down to himself, he never believe to himself, to his own ability. It was like he is always holding back to something he wants. He even said to us that his life is just a joke that really makes me want to motivate him more.
He is always absent in class that makes some of us called him “human mushroom.” It is so awkward to talk to someone like him, he is so quiet, he may talk to you but you’ll gonna need to talk to him first. He is anti-social person, he doesn’t interact to someone or to everyone but I gotta say this to you “In today’s world you have to interact. You can’t be some difficult, shy person who is not able to look somebody in the face, you have to present yourself. You have to know how to talk about your vision, your focus, and what you believe in.”
You can’t be like that, you know if you continue being like that maybe 20 years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by ones you did do. If you keep being a diffident person then you are the one who is stopping you, your attitude is the barrier, always remember that “No man, is an island,” so you have to interact and remember that “life begins at the end of your comfort zone.”
Just think of when a shy person smiles, it’s like the sun coming out and you have to be confident with that, because it is you, it is you who will gonna make your day.
In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure, so don’t be afraid and don’t be shy you just need to have a self-confidence, stop thinking about your weakness about what you can’t do besides make it your strength, your motivation and think about what you can do then your goal is to improve what you can’t do. It’s not too late, love yourself, embrace yourself and don’t be shy to show the world who you really are, and believe me “You are better than what you think you are.”
